I feel SOOOO selfish......
Don't get me wrong. I am THRILLED that we might actually be in PGN as of this week. I am thrilled we hired "AS" to get us going. I am thrilled that we are making progress. I am just so sad that I still don't have pictures of my girl! Sad that no one seems to understand that this is the only thing that carries us adoptive parents to the end of the process. The medicals we haven't received don't even really upset me anymore because I know that things can be taken care of when she comes home (even though I do hope that we don't have to deal with that). I just want to see my daughter..... it's been almost 3 months!!!
4 comments:
oh kristi,
i feel your pain! don't these people ever know when to just throw us a bone??!! i have heard that attorneys sometimes take pictures if no one from your agency has been in awhile.
as a side note, AS have been super helpful. the main thing they were able to do is get to the bottom of all of the lies we were told and then help things move from there. they seem to have great connections and now we rely on the updates they give us, rather than the "vague" updates from our agency. somehow, everyone ends up working all together, so we have also remained polite to our agency.
i know that sydney will be home soon--you have done everything you can as a mamma and it WILL happen!!! :)
Gosh and it has only been six weeks for me. You are not selfish. It is suppose to be a part of the process.
Gail
I don't think it is selfish to expect what is promised from your agency!!!!! You entered into this process in good faith...it is the agency who is being selfish...and I'm being kind...how about the lying, excuses,manipulation and more. You and I both know that once they get the money they quite "courting" PAP...from there on out, they are all for themselves...I speak from whence I know
Sweetie,
You are not being selfish at all....just totally normal. When our babies are still in Guat. the pictures are the only link we have to them. Our agencies PROMISE this at the beginning....then what happens???? We did get pics every month, but rarely medical updates. Give us SOMETHING PEOPLE! I will just pray that you get pics of sweet Syd soon!
hugs to you!
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