Still waiting to hear something
ANYTHING at all regarding whether we have a file in PGN. We are so frustrated at the lack of communication with the people in Guatemala and with our agency. We have to email and ask for updates instead of being kept up to date. It's very maddening seeing as how we ARE paying them quite a bit of money to do their jobs. We do not know if she is crawling, we do not know if her bottom teeth finally came in, we do not know what she's eating, we do not know ANYTHING and haven't during this entire adoption.
All the "not knowing" is breaking my heart. I mean truly breaking my heart!! I just think back 6 weeks when we were there. I wonder how much she has changed....how she is doing....yet I know that no one will get that information for me. We're lucky to get the bare minimum from the facilitator when we ask. It just tears me up inside! Why - why can't they understand how much we cling to those tiny little updates. Updates as simple as Sydney got her two bottom teeth in or Sydney has started solid foods. Anything to keep me in some sort of contact with our daughter.
If you could just please pray for us...pray for Sydney...pray! I know that it's all in God's perfect time and honestly, I'm okay with that. I just wish I had something to hold onto in the meantime. I need something to hold onto.
Anything....
3 comments:
I don't know you, but happened upon your blog! It is very cute! We are in the same boat, just entering PGN. Our daughter is 6 mos old. We get little to know info from our agency either. I bothered them every day until someone found out for me whether or not we were in PGN. Finally, I convinced them to bypass the "facilitator" and call the attorney directly. They finally did. I was told we entered on 8/3. I hated to be so pushy with them, but come on, these are out children. I understand just how you feel. Syndey has been added to my prayers as of tonite!
Thanks Anon - I really really appreciate it! Good luck and hope you are in and out quickly!
Kristi,
I understand your frustration...
I'm going back for a 2nd visit next week because of some similar concerns. I agree with you - why can't they tell us SOMETHING to keep us going until the next medical report, update or visit trip? Makes me want to scream!
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